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Terry Hoffman-Vincevineus
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Name: Terry Hoffman-Vincevineus
Email: tvince512@hotmail.com
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About: Terry resides in SE Wisconsin with her husband Phil, a mutt named Georgia, and 3 crazy cats named Layla, Nova, and Starbrite. She graduated from Random Lake high school in 2001 and then obtained a Bachelor's degree in Sociology and Communications in 2005 from UW-Milwaukee. She owns a photography business which she runs out of her home. Her goal in life is to eventually have children, see all 50 states, step foot on every continent, and meet an American president.See Authors Posts (7) ⋅ December 20, 2010
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Happy Holidays to All: As I toured the Miller Brewing company in Milwaukee with in-laws, we enjoyed a light show synchronized with music. My 2 year-old niece pointed, laughed, and smiled, with a look of excitement accentuated by holiday lights reflected in her blue eyes. After the show, one of the tour guides proclaimed over [...]
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Arno Michaels
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Name: Arno Michaels
Email: arno@lifeafterhate.org
Site: http://www.lifeafterhate.org
About: Currently majoring in Sport & Rec and Perpetual Major-Changing at the University of Wisconsin-Milwaukee. Enjoys climbing things and warm saltwater. Cold saltwater is kinda nice too.See Authors Posts (47) ⋅ December 19, 2010
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As readers of My Life After Hate will know, my friend Chuck was murdered after a streetfight in 1990. To this day, that murder remains unsolved. At the time we used the needless tragedy to drum-up more hate and violence, claiming that the white race needed to wake up and defend itself or our children [...]
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Arno Michaels
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Name: Arno Michaels
Email: arno@lifeafterhate.org
Site: http://www.lifeafterhate.org
About: Currently majoring in Sport & Rec and Perpetual Major-Changing at the University of Wisconsin-Milwaukee. Enjoys climbing things and warm saltwater. Cold saltwater is kinda nice too.See Authors Posts (47) ⋅ November 30, 2010
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“You’re gonna want to start getting in the right lane…” “Don’t worry about it dood; I’m Norwegian.” That means I always know where I’m going. “The Viking Sense” is what my daughter and I call it when we’re able to find our way around unfamiliar terrain. Sammy and I were on the way back from [...]
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Arno Michaels
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Name: Arno Michaels
Email: arno@lifeafterhate.org
Site: http://www.lifeafterhate.org
About: Currently majoring in Sport & Rec and Perpetual Major-Changing at the University of Wisconsin-Milwaukee. Enjoys climbing things and warm saltwater. Cold saltwater is kinda nice too.See Authors Posts (47) ⋅ October 18, 2010
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Whenever “us” is defined by “them”, the stage is set for rationing out measured compassion instead of letting it flow freely. Denying the interdependent nature of all life on Earth begins a process of exclusion that can quickly lead to atrocity. Atrocities like children engaging in the ongoing torture of another child until they see suicide as the only alternative.
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Judith Ford
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Name: Judith Ford
Email: pinkeggs@gmail.com
Site: http://www.judithford.com/
About: Judith Ford is a writer of fiction, non-fiction and poetry. She has taught creative writing to middle and high school students as well as a college-level course on turning personal experience into memoir or fiction. She has numerous publications in small press magazines. She is also a psychotherapist and educator, specializing in the treatment of eating disorders. Ms. Ford is semi-retired from her therapy practice, offering classes, lectures and supervision about eating disorder treatment and prevention. She has limited her therapy practice in order to spend more time writing. She lives half-time in Milwaukee and half-time in Sheboygan County on the Lake Michigan shore with her husband and two dogs.See Authors Posts (1) ⋅ October 18, 2010
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It took me longer than it should have to write this article. I thought I knew what I wanted to say, that an experience I had last summer moved me deeply and helped me put a face on Islam. But as I wrote, I realized that one of the reasons this experience educated me was [...]
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Sammy Rangel
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Name: Sammy Rangel
Email: sammyrangel@yahoo.com
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About: Sammy Rangel has been the Program Coordinator for the SAFE Streets Outreach Program for ten years. Sammy works with Racine County youth and families who face extreme crisis or danger. Often times these youth are involved in gang, drug, and crime activities that place them in risk for incarceration, addiction or worse. Sammy has reached thousands of youth, families, and professionals across the nation. Many of the youth experience abuse, abandonment, homelessness, and engage in survival behavior such as sex in exchange for food and shelter.
Mr. Rangel has created an initiative called “Adopt a School”. The presentations are tailored to the climate and needs of the individual school. Sammy has been able to reach tens of thousands of youth through this effort alone.
Most recently he was asked to provide a plenary session to open the second day of the 2010 Gang Summit Conference in Milwaukee to Federal, State, and Local Law Enforcement and service providers. Mr. Rangel provided two six-state regional conferences in 2004 and 2006. In 2004 Sammy provided in Chicago, a six-state regional conference keynote address and workshop for the Region V Training & Technical Assistance Program and again in Milwaukee 2006 provided a six-state regional two day conference as co-main presenter for outreach workers on best practices, crisis intervention, and gang intervention in non/traditional settings.
Sammy has been the main presenter in 2008 and 2009 for Why Gangs in Racine. In conjunction with the Milwaukee Lincoln Park Community Center and the Milwaukee Police Academy, at the Annual "Gangs, Violence and Crime" Conference, Sammy has provided ongoing workshops, presenting information on gangs for the beginner and advanced listener. Analysis on the subject included development, physical, and mental organizational concepts that make up a gang, street gangs and street workers, providing relevant facts and data. Sammy also has provided presentations to University of Wisconsin-Parkside and Carthage College in the Criminal Justice field with emphasis on client centered approaches and the importance of self-awareness when choosing fields and providing services.
Mr. Rangel is often asked to come in to various juvenile and adult correctional facilities around the state speaking with staff and clients. In 2006 Sammy was asked to present to the Department of Corrections Psychological Staff.
In 2004 Sammy graduated with Presidential honors from Gateway Technical College-Racine as the District and College Ambassador representing 450,000 students in Wisconsin. Sammy graduated from Carthage College with a Bachelors of Social Work Degree with a minor in Psychology, Cum Laude, in 2008. On September 13, 2009 Sammy graduated with a Master of Social Work Degree, Summa Cum Laude, with a mental health focus, from Loyola University-Chicago. He was also awarded An Excellence In Service Award by the school at graduation. Most recently October 19, 2009, Ren Svanoe Youth Leadership Award by the Wisconsin Association for Homeless and Runaway Services in recognition of outstanding dedication working with youth and families over the last ten years. In February 2008, Racine Interfaith Coalition recognized Sammy and his wife Denise, for promoting peace in the community. In 2006, Sammy received the Martin Luther King Award from UW-Parkside for his Community Service in Racine. Sammy, in 2005, was awarded the Hispanic Unsung Hero Award from the Martin Luther King Center in Racine for his work in the community. Sammy has been repeatedly asked to speak at multiple Black History Month events including for the NAACP and at the Sturtevant DOC site.
Mr. Rangel also worked at the Racine County Jail from 2004 through 2008 as a Clinical Substance Abuse Counselor helping men and women with addictive and criminal lifestyles. In addition to his work with youth he also provides mental health treatment as Racine Psychological Services with patient who are chronically mentally ill and/or dual diagnosed. Sammy is an adjunct teacher for MATC, Gateway Technical College, and for the Department of Transportation. Sammy contributes to the community by sitting on various committees that address race, homelessness, crime, gang activity or drug abuse issues among our youth and adults.
Sammy has furthered his credibility by overcoming the grips of addiction, and recovering from a street life of Chicago area gangs, violence and prison. It is worthy of note to mention that Sammy has accomplished all the aforementioned within ten years of being released from the Department of Corrections November 11, 1999, after serving more than 15 ½ years through his juvenile and adult years. Sammy lived out the majority of his preadolescent years as a victim of daily and ongoing childhood physical and sexual abuse. At the age of 11, Sammy set out on his own and lived out the rest of his juvenile life as homeless, throwaway child who very quickly encountered drugs, crime, sex, and violence on the street, just like at home. Eventually, Sammy made a lifestyle of the street life including gangs, crime, drugs, and institutions.
Sammy considers his most crucial role in the community as raising a family of four girls and enjoys being married to a wonderful woman, all of whom have actively participated and supported Sammy through his career and education.
As his wife so aptly stated… “The scary thing about Sammy is that despite all that he has accomplished in a very short period of time…He’s just getting started.”See Authors Posts (6) ⋅ October 18, 2010
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Sammy is seven years old. “Mama, I want some more beans, the kind that are the color of my skin, brown.” Whack. “Don’t ever say that. Never say that again.” Sammy didn’t understand. What did he say that was so wrong? Why did she slap him in the mouth? A psychologist may think Sammy’s mother [...]
I try to tell her that her natural curls are stronger than any spritz or freeze spray money can buy That these original Kinks are mighty and refuse to lie down and die But all I do is make my baby cry Why I try to explain the beauty of dark nappy tresses But they [...]
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Angie Aker
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Name: Angie Aker
Email: angieaker@yahoo.com
Site: http://www.angieaker.com
About: Angie Aker is a mother, daughter, sister, cousin, friend and entrepreneur. She attended Concordia University, WI for Business Management and Communications. Angie relinquished her hard-won rung on the corporate ladder to follow her passion of counseling others to be their best, healthiest selves and to indulge in her compulsion to write about truths as she finds them. Originally hailing from Kenosha, WI, Angie now resides in upstate New York with her children Axel and Gigi.See Authors Posts (24) ⋅ October 18, 2010
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Five months into my relationship with the love of my life, it happened. The first argument- and it was over Scrabble. Silly and laughable that this is what we’d find such a difference on, the tizzy of fear I tail-spun into temporarily seems ridiculous- unless you know what any argument of any magnitude would have [...]
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Angie Aker
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Name: Angie Aker
Email: angieaker@yahoo.com
Site: http://www.angieaker.com
About: Angie Aker is a mother, daughter, sister, cousin, friend and entrepreneur. She attended Concordia University, WI for Business Management and Communications. Angie relinquished her hard-won rung on the corporate ladder to follow her passion of counseling others to be their best, healthiest selves and to indulge in her compulsion to write about truths as she finds them. Originally hailing from Kenosha, WI, Angie now resides in upstate New York with her children Axel and Gigi.See Authors Posts (24) ⋅ October 18, 2010
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Our spirits were warmed by the air and solidarity as we walked through the streets of Washington D.C. on our way to witness the voices of fairness and equality carry on the work of Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. at the steps of the Lincoln Memorial. It was October 2, 2010 and the day we [...]
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Theresa Nickol
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Name: Theresa Nickol
Email: hoodie1976@yahoo.com
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About: My activities at the moment are both business and pleasure depending on the acquaintance. I am a free-lance artist specializing in Murals, Portraits and Abstract Art. I am also working on many articles that will hopefully become a compilation of my life lessons and one day become a self-help read for others. I currently am finishing up my Associates Degree in Psychology through on-line courses. I have the ambition to complete this degree within the next year, if my schedule permits being a full-time employee and mother.
My goal in life is to be heard from my travels of misfortune. To help others who are just as lost as I once was in my path to self realization. I have been told I can not only relate well to others, but offer up very realistic advice to those who are willing to listen. I also aspire to never spoil my children, but to love them. To guide them through their failures and cherish their accomplishments no matter the size. And whomever they choose to be in life, always be the driving force that encourages them to be inspirational human beings that remain true to themselves.
My philosophy in life is: “We Are What Have Learned, Nothing More and Nothing Less. To get better as we get older and to love ourselves as we do our own children. Without this mentality you will settle for anything and expect nothing. It is only with the help of those who know the worst of you and love you regardless that you learn to love yourself. We cannot conquer world peace, but we can bring peace to the world within ourselves."See Authors Posts (6) ⋅ August 18, 2010
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To trust again is very crippling, almost paralyzing in some ways. The biggest door to open is the emotional one we will not open once we are broken. To reverse back to infancy or a stage of pure innocence does not happen no matter how many therapy sessions we attend or self-help books we buy. [...]