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Can Christmas Coexist?

Happy Holidays to All: As I toured the Miller Brewing company in Milwaukee with in-laws, we enjoyed a light show synchronized with music. My 2 year-old niece pointed, laughed, and smiled, with a look of excitement accentuated by holiday lights reflected in her blue eyes. After the show, one of the tour guides proclaimed over [...]

‘Tis the Season for Interdependence

As readers of My Life After Hate will know, my friend Chuck was murdered after a streetfight in 1990. To this day, that murder remains unsolved. At the time we used the needless tragedy to drum-up more hate and violence, claiming that the white race needed to wake up and defend itself or our children [...]

Thankful for Norway via Puerto Rico

“You’re gonna want to start getting in the right lane…” “Don’t worry about it dood; I’m Norwegian.” That means I always know where I’m going. “The Viking Sense” is what my daughter and I call it when we’re able to find our way around unfamiliar terrain. Sammy and I were on the way back from [...]

Kindness Not Weakness

Whenever “us” is defined by “them”, the stage is set for rationing out measured compassion instead of letting it flow freely. Denying the interdependent nature of all life on Earth begins a process of exclusion that can quickly lead to atrocity. Atrocities like children engaging in the ongoing torture of another child until they see suicide as the only alternative.

How Sofia Helped Heal Sheboygan County

It took me longer than it should have to write this article. I thought I knew what I wanted to say, that an experience I had last summer moved me deeply and helped me put a face on Islam. But as I wrote, I realized that one of the reasons this experience educated me was [...]

Sacrifice and Resiliency

Sammy is seven years old. “Mama, I want some more beans, the kind that are the color of my skin, brown.” Whack. “Don’t ever say that. Never say that again.” Sammy didn’t understand. What did he say that was so wrong? Why did she slap him in the mouth? A psychologist may think Sammy’s mother [...]

THE STRUGGLE

I try to tell her that her natural curls are stronger than any spritz or freeze spray money can buy That these original Kinks are mighty and refuse to lie down and die But all I do is make my baby cry Why I try to explain the beauty of dark nappy tresses But they [...]

Thinking Past Fear

Five months into my relationship with the love of my life, it happened. The first argument- and it was over Scrabble. Silly and laughable that this is what we’d find such a difference on, the tizzy of fear I tail-spun into temporarily seems ridiculous- unless you know what any argument of any magnitude would have [...]

One Nation: A Life After Hate

Our spirits were warmed by the air and solidarity as we walked through the streets of Washington D.C. on our way to witness the voices of fairness and equality carry on the work of Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. at the steps of the Lincoln Memorial. It was October 2, 2010 and the day we [...]

This is where my story comes in…

To trust again is very crippling, almost paralyzing in some ways. The biggest door to open is the emotional one we will not open once we are broken. To reverse back to infancy or a stage of pure innocence does not happen no matter how many therapy sessions we attend or self-help books we buy. [...]

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Sammy Rangel “FOURBEARS: Myths of Forgiveness”

FourBears: The Myth of Forgiveness: isn't a simple memoir; it is a graphically illustrated guide from tortured child, to remorseless beast, to healing and change. This book is about helping others find their way out of their history and into the here and now. Proof that what once held you down can now hold you up. After the book reflects on a horrific upbringing it looks to offer key and ground breaking insights of the inner workings of the mind of a victim and later a perpetrator of hate and violence. Service providers working in treatment centers and institutional settings would greatly benefit from this work. Anyone facing issues with forgiveness and change might find a process toward healing and recovery.

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